Photo By: Mel Fechter

Mentoring Mankind with Memories and Musings

Jun 23,   Spring and Summer in Shangri La
Mar 13,   Stories of WWII are Fading Fast
Feb 22,   Canst Thou Protest Too Much?
Jan 26,   New Medical Paradigm On Horizon
Jan 16,   COLLEGE DAZE Is On the Horizon
Jan 10,   My Book Is On Its Way to Publication
Dec 18,   Red Letter Days Mark Milestones
Dec 17,   Today Was a Red Letter Day
Dec 1,   the 2nd Year of My Voyage is Over
Nov 20,   I Find Family and Friends at Hallmark
Nov 5,   My Book From the Male Viewpoint
Oct 12,   Music & Movies Mark My Milestones
Sep 18,   My New Life Appears on the Horizon
Aug 23,   Life is a Pathway with Many Forks
Aug 21,   The Importance of Doing My Best
Aug 4,   Life Imitates Hello Myrmidon
Aug 1,   Writing a Book Has Changed My Life
Jun 13,   Plants are Amazing Creatures
May 25,   Will You Accept My Apology?
May 1,   A Journal is a Window on Your Life
Apr 30,   A Road Trip to Shangri La
Apr 25,   Movies as Matchmakers
Apr 23,   Me at Seventy-Three!!!
Apr 19,   Make Time for Your Friends
Apr 14,   Can One Make a Difference?
Apr 9,   a snipit from HELLO MYRMIDON
Apr 1,   What Price Glory, Sweat, Tears
Mar 30,   To Retrieve or Not Retrieve
Mar 29,   Discourse on Decisions
Mar 25,   Memory Retrieval
Mar 24,   I Join the World Community
Mar 22,   Website Lessons
Mar 3,   My Miracles, Part 2
Mar 2,   My Miracles, Part 1
Feb 9,   Phones of Old, Part 2
Feb 8,   Phones of Old, Part 1
Feb 7,   Twitterpated!!!
Jan 25,   Jacob and Esau, Part 2
Jan 24,   Jacob and Esau, Part 1
Jan 10,   A New Goal?
Jan 9,   My Earliest Memories
Dec 31,   2016: Successes and Failures
Dec 30,   2016: My Self-Discovery
Dec 28,   I Finally Hear My Angels
Dec 27,   Angels and Me
Dec 26,   Angels Inspire Me
Dec 24,   the Littlest Angel
Dec 23,   Story of My Name Part 3
Dec 22,   Story of My Name Part 2
Dec 21,   Story of My Name Part 1
Dec 19,   Prior Challenges Part 2
Dec 17,   Prior Challenges Part 1
Dec 16,   My Website Challenge
Dec 15,   Astrological Review of 2016
Dec 14,   North Coast Winter
Dec 13,   an Angelic Intervention
Dec 12,   Birth of HELLO MYRMIDON
Dec 11,   Christmas Lights Fade
Dec 10,   Christmas Art Project
Dec 9,   Finding a Perfect Tree
Dec 7,   Christmas with KW
Dec 6,   Christmas around the World
Dec 4,   Mom’s Story Part 2
Dec 3,   Mom’s Christmas Story Part 1
Dec 2,   Ghosts of Christmas Past
Dec 1,   My First Blog

Guest Blogs

Mar 24,   SusanDay on Being a Grandparent

20th Mar Adventures in Cyber Dating

As a retired widow I have dared to adventure into realms that were heretofore not on my list of places where colorful experiences could be had. One of these is the world of computer dating sites. I must make it clear at the outset that the results of my foray into that world has left a plethora of failed connections in its wake. Many contacts offered brief but pleasant “hello, how are you” exchanges. Very few were eager or at least willing to share stories from their lives. Most of the others offered communiques with a variety of outcomes, such as frank disappointment, hurtful encounters, outright scams asking for money or to do something illegal, sob stories, soulful pleas for advice, sweet but temporary connections, etc. Surprisingly, the ages of the men ranged from 40’s to 80’s, even though they knew I was in my late 60’s to early 70’s. Those much younger than me insisted that age does not make a difference…. I always reply that one day they will understand that aging itself changes a person’s perspective on that subject.

I have occasionally actually subscribed to a site. One time I did solely because I found a guy that I thought was a perfect match, but my several emails were met with total silence. Either he was not interested, or he did not subscribe. Either way, my investment was futile. Because I’ve not found anybody else that was worth renewing my subscriptions, I mostly just use the limited free services they offer. This means that you can’t really contact anybody beyond getting their attention by “viewing their profile” and sending a free “nudge”. Although I intentionally include several clues in my profiles that can easily be used to contact me, so far I know of only one guy that has used them. We were not well matched, but we have remained casual friends ever since.

When I have found profiles that I felt would be a good match I tried everything I could to reach them. Sometimes their user name gives a clue, so I searched on Google or social media, and I actually found a few. I even talked on the phone with one or two, and had an actual date with one. However, he was not at all interested in continuing.   Later he called me to see who the number in his phone was for, since he was to be married soon and was cleaning out his contacts. He didn’t even know who I was. That whole thing was a real downer.

One guy said in his profile that he was a lawyer, and even gave the name of the company where he had worked before retiring. So I sent an email to them to forward to him, but he wrote back to say he was already seeing someone and was not interested. However, several times since then he has “viewed my profile”, so it really makes me wonder what’s up with that.   Another guy has a business in a small town in Alaska and has a lot in common with my sister who lives in a nearby town. So I googled his business and sent a message,   but got no reply. Oh well, I gave it a shot anyway.

Because of experiences like this I am occasionally engulfed by waves of melancholy at my abject failure to find even one guy that I can consider a dear and lasting friend. However, when I look back now at the variety in the messages I have received, I can clearly see the enrichment to my life that they have provided,  be it pleasant or just a learning experience for me.

A great example of this is the blog article I recently posted about the similar stories of WWII from 2 guys who were both innocent little boys but on opposite sides of that terrible conflict. Sadly, many of my previous forays into cyber correspondence have been lost, but those that did get saved have many thoughts and subjects that can send a person searching through the archives of their own lives.

This then could be a subject of another full-length epistolary volume, documenting exchanges in their own words with guys from all sorts of far-flung places, and offering a small slice of what their lives are like. Of course, my responses to them will give some insight into the effect they have on my own life and thoughts as well.   Unfortunately at this time the final formatting of HELLO MYRMIDON requires my full attention.   But when I can I will gather together all the available letters into one place, and when the time is right I will share them with the world. So hold on to your hats, this is the latest addition to the growing list of possible future books, and promises to be quite a ride.

Angel Clough Official Website Copyright

All Rights Reserved


Designed by: Wintel Serve It Fix
Hello Myrmidon

Shipping available only to US & Canada